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Category: He/Him

Faith

Question

May 15, 2026October 6, 2026 ~ Things Men Carry ~ 1 Comment

I'm noticing this something or other a few times lately among a few close and not-so-close homies in various compartments of my life. It has to do with our president. In what I like to call Operation I Can't Take This Shit Anymore, an epic and mass defection has taken place in which, very specifically, … Continue reading Question

Until He says so

March 27, 2026June 1, 2026 ~ Things Men Carry ~ Leave a comment

You know the surest way to knock yourself down a few more pegs is to check out several of your old classmates' profiles on the LinkedIn. Partner. President Principal. And not the high school kind, either. Might I strongly recommend you not do that, embark on said lark whilst ensconced in the middle of a … Continue reading Until He says so

Happy birthday

December 25, 2025June 1, 2026 ~ Things Men Carry ~ Leave a comment

Young blood and I attended an NFL game recently. Prior to the kickoff, an assemblage of players kneeled in one of the end zones in unison-prayer. I looked and looked, but I couldn't spot an offensive lineman who I know has Catholic roots and is furthermore a practicing one. There could be a perfect, secular … Continue reading Happy birthday

These next 40

March 5, 2025September 23, 2025 ~ Things Men Carry ~ Leave a comment

Jesus said to His disciples: Take care not to perform righteous deeds in order that people may see them; otherwise you will have no recompense from your Heavenly Father. When you give alms, do not blow a trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets to win the praise … Continue reading These next 40

In thanksgiving

November 28, 2024September 23, 2025 ~ Things Men Carry ~ Leave a comment

Thank you for another day another breathanother crack at itanother ideaanother laughanother cry Thank youfor this sweet sweet boy of minehis spirithis rugged good lookshis gifts his talentshis bounce-backhis digitshis mentalsmost of all his random texts to his old man  Thank youfor my familymy homies my union brothers and sisters. Thank you for the work keeping me … Continue reading In thanksgiving

Self,

November 20, 2024June 1, 2026 ~ Things Men Carry ~ Leave a comment

Here we are Party of one What do you want to think about? Penance Knew you were gonna say that Anything but the elections I mean, penance is a light topic, why not? lol You'd think by coming out and saying you voted Trump qualified you as a man. Not the Trump part, just the … Continue reading Self,

Here’s to a snot-nose Christmas

December 28, 2023September 23, 2025 ~ Things Men Carry ~ Leave a comment

I cried Monday. A lot. It was at my home parish decked out in Christmas celebration. Poinsettias and glittery Christmas trees and a standalone, gazebo-like structure with cream-colored silks for a cover, while underneath a nativity scene. I cried for the baby who would just wind up getting insulted and berated His whole adult life. … Continue reading Here’s to a snot-nose Christmas

Happy belated birthday

January 12, 2023September 23, 2025 ~ Things Men Carry ~ Leave a comment

You of course know this already I'm having this conversation with a guy who just recently moved into my neighbors' rental across the street.  He swings by in his monogrammed bath robe, a gentlemanly pipe jutting out his mouth, and I'm thinking, Shit, maybe this is how Nigerian dudes say hello the second time. The … Continue reading Happy belated birthday

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